Archive for April, 2009

Why I Love My Wife: Reason #23,056

D.J. Williams | April 24, 2009 in Life | Comments (0)

Scene: Yesterday evening, our basement.

Me: The Hurricanes have a big game tonight at 7:30.

Expected Typical Wife Response: Huh.

My Wife: You know who looks really good right now? Boston! They made the Canadiens look like a high school team last night!


Happy Birthday, Sola Miscellany

D.J. Williams | in Blog | Comments (0)

It’s hard for me to believe, but exactly one year ago I read an article on CNN that irritated the crap out of me and it provoked me to take up blogging. One year and 337 posts (some more worthwhile than others) later, I’m still going. I’ve found blogging to be fun and tremendously helpful to me spiritually. It’s given me a medium to mentally process things that God is doing in my life. In asking the question “How would I communicate this to someone else?” I’ve found that the principles God is teaching me are more deeply communicated to my own heart. Along the way, ferrets, relocated NBA teams, and a clothes dryer have been causes for spiritual reflection and meditation, and for that, I’m thankful. Of course, a journal would serve that same purpose, so I hope that posting these reflections (and a little bit of just plain fun) has been helpful to some of you as well. Thanks for reading, and God willing I’ll still be blogging on April 24, 2010.


Sola5 Wednesday Recap – 4/22/09

D.J. Williams | in Bible | Comments (0)

This weekly topic is an effort to recap the Wednesday night Bible study I teach at Sola5, my youth group. I hope it serves to help us all in contemplating the ceaseless riches of God’s grace as revealed through the Scriptures.

In chapter 10 of Ecclesiastes, the book shifts in its structure from the prose of most of the first 9 chapters into short proverbs, very reminiscent of the bulk of the book of Proverbs. Having spent the book laying out the vanity of life apart from God and the supremacy of God in all things, Solomon now starts to give quick bites of wisdom describing what a wise life or a foolish life looks like (and remember – God is the source of wisdom, and thus foolishness is by definition a rejection of God). Wednesday night, we looked at the proverbs at chapter 10 and examined eight “quick hits” of wisdom to apply to our Christian walk and worldview.

First, in verses 1-3, we looked at the poison of sin. Solomon uses the imagery of dead flies in fine perfume to demonstrate how a small bit of foolishness or sin can render an otherwise wise life futile. Imagine that you are drinking a bottle of Coke, and I take it and spit in it. I would guess that you wouldn’t keep on drinking it. Why not? It’s just a little bit of spit, right? The bottle is still probably around 98% Coke. That wouldn’t matter to you, though. A small bit is enough to make the whole thing repulsive. In a similar way, a small bit of sin in our lives can destroy the rest of our testimony. Thus, we should be constantly on our guard.

Secondly, in verses 4-11, we looked at the danger of pride. These verses contain many warnings against pride, from Solomon’s observation that those in places of prominence and recognition aren’t always deserving of it (verses 5-7), to warnings that one’s own accomplishments can often cause harm (verses 8-11). We should make sure that we’re trusting in God and keeping our pride in check. Thirdly, in verses 12-14, we examined the power of words, both to do good and to do evil. Our words, whether spoken, written, or Tweeted, carry the potential to build others up or to be empty, wasting time at best and tearing down at worst. Think carefully about the things you say. In verse 15, we looked at the importance of focus. Solomon points out the futility of working and sweating to reach a destination when you don’t know how to get there in the first place. All the effort and ability in the world is wasted when it doesn’t have a purpose in view. What are you chasing in life? What is important to you? Put Christ in your sights and follow him, ensuring that your life’s efforts won’t end up a bridge to nowhere.

Fifth, in verses 16-17, we see the value of sobriety. A byproduct of the proper focus, sobriety is the ability to control one’s self and think clearly about what is important. We need to understand the importance of our time and use it wisely. After all, if Solomon asserts here the importance of wisdom and sobriety for those who rule nations, how much more vital is it for we who are ambassadors for Christ? Sixth, in verse 18, we see the need of work. There is no such thing as an armchair Christian. Our faith demands action, and we need to be willing to do the work it takes to know God (primarily through his word) and the work that knowledge demands of us. In verse 19, we see the gift of blessings. In a book where Solomon has constantly belittled earthly wealth as meaningless, it is a good counterbalance here to see him speaking of the value that material things can have. God created all things good, and every good gift we have comes from him. When we stop seeing our things as our things and start seeing them as gifts from God, we’ll start enjoying them and using them in an entirely different way and avoid the trap that they can so easily become. Finally, in verse 20, we looked at the destruction of hate. We all know murder is wrong, but often times we feel that harboring anger or resentment in our hearts is harmless. Jesus made it pretty clear that’s not the case, but Solomon warns against it as well. Nothing will destroy your relationships with God and others faster than harboring bitterness and hatred against other people.

My encouragement to the believers in our group was to reread the chapter and this list before going to bed Wednesday and to pinpoint one of the eight things that needs the most attention in their lives. What about you? Which of these lessons of wisdom do you need to learn or re-learn? Seek God’s wisdom, and avoid a wasted life.


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D.J. Williams | April 22, 2009 in Sports | Comments (0)

That’s how much time was left on the clock last night when Jussi Jokinen’s deflection of a Dennis Seidenberg shot crossed the goal line, giving the Hurricanes an incredible 4-3 win over New Jersey and evening the series at 2-2. It was the latest regulation game-winner in playoff history, and an incredible finish to a game Carolina had to have. If you missed it, here’s a look.


Random Tuesday Question – 4/21/09

D.J. Williams | April 21, 2009 in Humor | Comments (4)

Tuesday is a day without an identity. It’s not reviled like Monday, gleefully anticipated like Friday, or celebrated like Saturday. It doesn’t have a cool name like Wednesday’s “humpday,” or Sunday’s spiritual identity. Let’s help Tuesday find itself. Lately, I’ve been having fun with Blogger’s random question feature. So, every Tuesday, I’ll take a new question, post my answer here, and ask for yours in the comments. Come on. Tuesday needs you.

You’ve successfully slain the dragon! How will you toast your marshmallows?

I’ll chain him to the ground, stand over him with my sword, then have my cleric friend use his last raise dead spell to bring him back to life. Once the marshmallows are toasty, I’ll finish him off again.


The Constant Need of Grace

D.J. Williams | April 20, 2009 in Quotes | Comments (0)

“Your worst days are never so bad that you are beyond the reach of God’s grace. And your best days are never so good that you are beyond the need of God’s grace.” – Jerry Bridges

HT: Tim Challies


One Step Forward…

D.J. Williams | in Sports | Comments (0)

…you know the rest. After snatching home-ice advantage from the Devils on Friday, the Hurricanes gave it back last night, falling to New Jersey 3-2 in overtime. This put the Devils ahead 2-1 in the series and will make tomorrow’s Game 4 vital, as a 3-1 deficit heading back to New Jersey would be incredibly difficult to overcome. Come on, Canes!


Roger Ebert on "God"

D.J. Williams | in Theological Reflections | Comments (0)

Roger Ebert is without a doubt my favorite film critic. Though I don’t agree with him in every instance (The Phantom Menace was better than Attack of the Clones???), more often than not I find his insights into movies to ring very true. I usually check his reviews and blogs every couple weeks, and looking at his blog this morning I read a fascinating post detailing his personal view of God and spirituality. It’s fascinating to me largely because I suspect it is representative (save for being a lot more intellectually developed) of much of our culture’s view of God – nebulous, un-knowable, and certainly not demanding anything from humanity save the most broad moral platitudes. An excerpt…

“Let me rule out at once any God who has personally spoken to anyone or issued instructions to men. That some men believe they have been spoken to by God, I am certain. I do not believe Moses came down from the mountain with any tablets he did not go up with. I believe mankind in general evidently has a need to believe in higher powers and an existence not limited to the physical duration of the body. But these needs are hopes, and believing them doesn’t make them true.”

I’d encourage you to read the post and to consider how you’d go about telling Ebert about the glory of the living God, because I strongly suspect that you’ll meet a couple Eberts in your life – or that you know one already.


Now We’re Even

D.J. Williams | April 18, 2009 in Sports | Comments (0)

That’s more like it. After a dismal Game 1, the Canes evened the series with a 2-1 overtime win over the Devils in Game 2. Tim Gleason picked a great time to score his first goal of the season with the game-winner. Now the series shifts back to Raleigh, and since Carolina stole a game in New Jersey they just need to win their three home games to earn a trip to the second round.


Friday’s Featured Film – 4/17/09

D.J. Williams | April 17, 2009 in Movies | Comments (2)

New movies are usually released to theaters every Friday, but who’s got 10 bucks these days to drop on a movie that may well be a load of crap? Given those odds, each Friday I offer an alternative on DVD that you can rent at your local video store (or in some cases, avoid at all costs). Some will be new releases, others you may have to hunt for, but all of them are available to light up your small screen should it be a lazy Friday night.

Arlington Road
When my wife and daughter were out of town a couple weekends ago, I got to watch several movies I’ve been wanting to see as I was hanging out with some friends. One was a movie that my good friend Josh Nelson has been recommending to me for months now – the 1999 thriller Arlington Road. It’s a movie that had its ups and downs for me, and it’s a tough one to review since much of the film’s power (like many thrillers) is due to its twists and turns, but in the end is was an enjoyable, if flawed, bit of filmmaking.
The movie opens with Michael Faraday (Jeff Bridges), a widowed college professor and an expert on domestic terrorism, driving down his street and seeing an injured, bleeding boy, whom he takes to the hospital. As the boy recovers, Michael realizes that he is the son of his new neighbors, Oliver and Cheryl Lang (Tim Robbins and Joan Cusack). Michael, his girlfriend (Hope Davis) and son become fast friends with the Langs, with the two boys becoming increasingly close. However, things begin to unravel for Michael when a series of strange occurrences makes him think that there may be more to his new neighbors than meets the eye. He begins to dig into their past, and despite the skepticism of everyone around him, he believes he has come upon a terrifying secret.
For the first two-thirds of it’s running time, Arlington Road is a well-crafted but unspectacular thriller. Director Mark Pellington (The Mothman Prophecies) does a great job of setting an unsettling tone from the opening scene, and he has a knack for making the ordinary feel quite uncomfortable. All the cast seem quite comfortable playing characters that feel very organic for them. Everything feels engaging, but not like anything we haven’t seen before. In the movie’s final act, two big shifts occur. One feels contrived and over-the-top at first but more understandable in hindsight, and the other is a shocking and incredibly gripping revelation that feels a little less impressive in hindsight. Without giving too much away, the mark of a great twist in a thriller is the ability to rewatch the film to see if the plot holds up. M. Night Shyamalan is the best at this I’ve seen. His twists are amazing, but they never cheat – in fact, repeat viewings of The Sixth Sense make me wonder how I never saw the twist coming to begin with. While Arlington Road’s big twist was fantastic in the moment, the more I think about it the more I seriously doubt its plausibility would hold up under the careful eye of a second viewing. If you’ve watched the film more than once, let me know your thoughts in the comments (consider this a spoiler warning for the comments if you haven’t seen the film). All-in-all, Arlington Road is an entertaining thriller, and while a second viewing may dampen the experience, for me the first was quite a ride. – *** (out of 4)
Arlington Road is rated R for violence and some language.